Note: This is an outline of a sermon preached by a dear pastor friend of our Bro. Bob Jennings. When we visited his home (a few states away from us) several years back, I asked his wife for her
granola recipe. She jotted it down and gave it to me. When I looked at it I noticed that she had written it on the back of a paper with this outline printed on it. I keep it in my Bible and read it when I'm feeling insufficient or frustrated as a parent.
1. Christian parents are ultimately cast upon the grace of God.
A. Samuel, 1 Sam. 8:1f
B. Hezekiah
2. Parenting is a joy, a great blessing. Psalm 127:5, 128:4
3. But parenting is also a challenge with responsibilities. It can be a grief. 1 Kings 1:6
4. The child's self-will must be broken. Proverbs 29:15
5. Reprove firmly, mean what you say. 1 Sam. 2:23, 3:13
6. Reprove with kindness; nobly, not cheaply. Psalm 141:5
7. Beware of hypocrisy. Luke 12:1, 1 Peter 5:3
8. Don't exasperate the children. Col. 3:21
9. Teach the children to be tough, to endure hardship without complaints and even taking it cheerfully. 2 Tim. 2:3
10. Instill a spirit of disciple 2 Tim. 1:7 NAS
11. Teach them to be hard workers. Gen. 24:20
12. Let the child be needed and feel needed. 2 Tim. 4:11
13. Do all you can together as a family. Acts 2:46
14 Father and mother must show deep unity. Psalm 133:1
15. Overall, you are teaching them that it is God with whom they have to do. Psalm 34:11
You can see a video of Bro. Bob preaching a sermon on parenting
here.